Monday, March 31, 2008

Applying what you´ve learned

I have started to settle into life as a volunteer in Honduras. Almost two months have past and each day I feel more comfortable with life here. The past few weeks of training have been fun. While the majority of our technical training consists of sitting through lectures and examples of the health projects that are ongoing in country, occasionally we get to field test what we’ve learned. This past week the health squad was split into four groups of four and each group gave a 4 hour lecture on HIV/AIDS to a class of high school juniors in La Paz. (a lot of 4’s) Initially we were all pretty nervous about stepping into a class room setting, but after a few minutes it all felt very natural. Everyone did an amazing job speaking and presenting the material. After several activities with the kids we gave a thirty minute lecture on global and country statistics, transmission dynamics, and tools for prevention. Our last activity was a condom demonstration/practice for all 26 of the students in the class. I was honestly a little nervous about the last activity, and after seeing that 22 of the 26 students were girls I was freaking out a little. But, everything was great and the kids were really attentive and interested. Naturally, the activity started with a few giggles. At the end of class, two girls came up to me and the other male volunteer in my group, and asked if she could take a picture with us. Apparently, the gringo boys are a bit of a hit with the Honduran Chicas…it was cute.


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You might be asking yourself what there is to do for fun when you live in a small town with nothing to do other than eat, sleep, and be hot. Well, the answer is chicken fights. This past weekend a few of us decided to head on down to the old fighting ring, which actually looks like the ultimate fighting champion octogon, but on a much smaller scale. It was the first time for most, so we weren´t really sure how it was going to go down. Unfortunately, the girls that came with us didnt make it past the second fight and got the hell out of there before they passed out. After they left it was just the boys. Now, I dont want to sound machista, but there are only 5 of us men in the health program out of 16. And since we are split into two group of 8, its only Matt and I in Yarumela with 6 lovely ladies. Essentially, there is a lot of estrogen flying around, and there was nothing manlier than watching two savage beasts, or chickens (whatever the case may be) fight to the death. Its actually really impressive that so much planning and training goes into this noble sport. Most trainers actually clip the short wing feathers of the roosters and insert the really long tail feathers in their place so that the roosters have better balance during the fight. Now, contrary to popular belief, and by popular belief I mean Seinfeld, the roosters do not wear miniature bloxing gloves during the fight. Instead, a two inch blade is strapped to the right leg of the rooster in place of its thumb nail. Surprisingly, it IS true that the roosters look more like dogs with gloves strapped to their heads...(they really are huge and there are even different weight classes). Before the fight begins a third rooster is brought into the ring to harrass the roosters waiting to fight. Its pretty crazy. Once the fight begins feathers instantly burst into the air and the men watching the fight start screaming and chanting while waving their bets in the air. Aside from the occasional drunk guy asking me to take him to america, it was pretty amazing. As far as betting, I made a small side bet with a friend of mine and of course I lost. Some of the older men at the fight said that they hadn´t seen a bird go down that bad in a long time...I still stick by my decision. Serioiusly though, the rooster went down in about five seconds with a huge gash across the length of its stomach...disgusting. On a side note, there was this guy there who looked like he was kind of a big deal. Apparently, he is known for breeding a lot of winning roosters, which doesnt mean much since they all are eventually killed (horrible I know). But just to paint you a picture this guy was about six foot, beer belly, white cowboy hat, white jeans, green and white plaid shirt tucked in, huge black-grey mustache, crystal blue eyes, with a huge pistol hanging from his belt. He seriously looked like a drug-lord...not to mention he was walking in circles carrying above his head the biggest white rooster I have ever seen

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On a more serious note…without trying to sound preachy

Everyday that goes by I become more aware of my responsibility towards those that are less fortunate than me. In the world I come from serious worries are few and far between. The future depends solely on an individual’s willingness to take advantage of the hundreds of opportunities that lie before them. In my world we complain about where to eat, and not if we’ll eat; we complain about tap water tasting funny, and not getting diarrheal disease if we drink it; we complain about non-energy saving light bulbs, and not whether or not our town will get electricity in the next 5 years. My words may make you feel guilty, but they are not meant to make you change the way you live your life. How can you compare the wealth of a developed superpower to that of a country unable to provide basic services to a population of 8 million? The world I come from and the world I now live in are not different worlds, but parallel universes. We live in the same time, but see through different eyes. As you sit deciding on what you want to eat, so do I. The only difference is options. As we move down the ladder of wealth, affluence diminishes and poverty flourishes. Developing countries are run by select elite that limit the options of their greatest allies, their people. Yet I sit in this universe and observe as an outsider. It’s a system that has flourished with devastating results, yet it is a system in which people bye into. And while we call it a simple life, it’s simply a life without options.

Phew, needed to get that out.

Ok, I want to give a shout out to my boys in B-town and the Atl crew.

8 comments:

Leah said...

Wow. You sure did paint a picture for me - for the life I do, and DON'T live. Thank you so much for your insight. After these two years, you and I both are going to be seeing the world in a VERY different way ( as if we're not already). I love you!

Leah

Noto said...

Joel-

Wow, a cockfight?! Damn, that is crazy. It sounds just as horrible as you might expect it to be. Oh well, sounds like you got it out of your system at least, huh? Also, you crack me up between the "I stand by my decision..." and the probable druglord that was walking around in a white cowboy hat. Surreal, man.

Stay safe and keep the stories coming!

Also, your last statement was very powerful. It shows the maturity you possess and the appreciation you have for the experiences you are given... 2 very admirable qualities.

Talk to you soon-

Dan

cynthia said...

joel
i am so grateful that you are so aware of the difficulty of life in the underdevelop countries. i am sure you will make a difference in someone and that you will dedicate your life to educate people and show them that they have options.
i guess you will be shopping at walmart now!
the cockfight, OMG! grose and facinating. are there any bull fights?
i am so proud of you and so happy that you feel good with yourself and with the choices you have made.
love you
mom

Jess said...

Aside from the cock fighting, what you're doing is so amazing. Keep up the good work Peachy!

<3 me

David said...

Joel-I am friends with your parents and have spoken to you several times over the years. My thoughts have been of you often the past several weeks and am glad that you are gaining the experiences you are. You'll never be the same person you were. Stay safe and now how lucky we are to live in the circumstances we do. Keep your head up.

Kami said...

Hey Joel,

I'm so glad you are doing well and learning a lot. Your story about the presentation makes me think about my own experience teaching sexual health. The comments I will never forget were from students who told me they wish they had been given the presentation before they got pregnant or contracted an STD. As uncomfortable as it may be, what you are doing is having a huge impact on people's lives and as you pointed out, giving them information and options where they had none before. I am so proud of you and the work you are doing. (And also slightly jealous :) ). On a less serious note, your story about the cockfight totally reminds me of little Jerry Seinfeld. Hopefully you've seen the episode and know what I'm talking about.

By the way, Javitch asked me and Sara to come to class early next week to discuss last semester's class reviews. Should be interesting...

Miss you,

Kami

Rachel said...

Why oh why don't you blog?? 9 loooonnngggg days...

johanna said...

unbeliveable but truly a fact of life and who are we to decide what is entertaining.don't we watch men beat each other to a pulp and call it boxing. loved what you had to say about choices i think that is it in a nut shell. keep writing love to read your blog.

johanna